The 100 Years Club Installment #102: Gifting

People spent about $11B this weekend on Black Friday sales alone.

That’s a whole lotta stuff.

I reflect on the gifts I’ve received over the past (approximately) six decades and those that were the most memorable.

They include a perfume-making kit, a giant pink stuffed dog, a tiny black and white TV (which was high-tech for the era), and an IBM Selectric typewriter stand out, along with the photo albums and kitchen gadgets my daughters send me.

None of them is super-extravagant, but they all reflect an understanding of what I might find useful or meaningful.

After my divorce, I’ve spent most of my winter holidays solo. I have a festive sequined tree and a menorah, and I usually treat myself to a few splurgy things. Treating yourself can be therapeutic and fun.

Gifting others can bring joy, especially when giving time and presents to the people you love and strangers in need. See below for the psychology of gifting!

So, this will not be a “traditional” gift guide where I include many product links. Here are some ideas that don’t cost much (certainly not $11B) and can delight both the gifter and the giftee:

1. Plan a small or extravagant family or friend outing, but check on everyone’s schedule. “Command performances” can cause stress and inconvenience. Remember that experiences can be more memorable than things. Tickets to music, cultural, or sporting events, a weekend at a fun destination, or just a reservation at a hot new restaurant are a few options.
2. Offer to babysit a friend’s or relative’s kids (or pets) so they can enjoy a night out. Throw in some movie tickets, a restaurant gift card, or a massage.
3. Bake or cook something special (but only if you have culinary skills and your friend or family member isn’t on a restrictive diet). Pack it in a reusable tin or other packaging. Even if the recipient doesn’t love your food, they’ll have a new kitchen accessory (or re-gifting receptacle). Make extra, just in case you forget someone on your gift list.
4. Donate to a cause your friend or relative is committed to.
5. Subscription gifts (magazines, monthly boxes, language programs, flowers, useful tech apps, etc.) are a year-round delight. You can also create a one-time box with small but useful items you know your friend would love.

Above all, try not to stress yourself over gift-giving this holiday season. And, if you don’t get what you want or need, treat yourself! After all, the holidays should be about a “feeling” and not the number and size of boxes under the tree or the menorah!

Something you can gift me that doesn’t cost you a penny? Subscribe to my YouTube channel, please!

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And here’s a free “gift” for you! Fun facts about gifting!

	Why gifting makes us feel good
	This year’s holiday tipping guide
	People reflect on the worst gifts they received
	I’m still a “gadget girl!” Check these out, Santa! (hint, hint)